Couples Match

Believe it or not, it can be done! But you must realize the Couples Match isn't easy, because now there are two people to take into account, two programs to look at, two views of the liveability/unliveability of the city, etc. And it can be especially difficult if one or both members of the couple have chosen particularly competitive specialties (Anesthesia, Urology, Orthopedics, OB/GYN and sometimes even General Surgery). If you two are not married, or are not planning any kind of committed relationship, think long and hard before going through the Couple's Match as it will require incredible commitment and a lot of compromise.

Also see Surviving the Couples Match

So you still want to go for it? OK, here goes:

The first thing to do is to seek a lot of advice from faculty and residents who interviewed in your chosen field (preferably recently) about which programs to consider. Start early (February or March) requesting information and applications on those programs you may be interested in; you may not necessarily want to take the time to thoroughly read each brochure at this point, you mainly just need to find out what the program needs to consider an application "complete". We found residents who'd interviewed at the program recently to be our best source of information. A word of advice, however, a big name school does not guarantee a good residency program. Many of these big-name programs are very research-oriented and/or use their residents for scut; you're probably better off looking at them when it comes time to do a fellowship (if you so desire). But visit one or two, because it may be what's right for you.

Next, each member of the couple should compile a list of all the programs they are interested in and compare notes. See what places have suitable programs for both of you, then begin to fill out those applications. Keep a file, neatly organized, of all the places you applied to, so your information will be ready for quick reference when it comes time to interview. If one or both members of the couple are in an "interview by invitation only" specialty, we suggest applying to about twice as many programs as you plan to interview at, a lot of work, but it will pay off in future results.

Interviewing: November, December and January are the best months to interview, and if your programs require a Dean's Letter before they will think of interviewing you, better plan to interview in December or January. Many programs will do their best to allow you both to interview on the same day, and that will save money on hotels, etc. Plan to take time off school. The Couple's Match requires a lot of interviewing and it is just too difficult to arrange time off classes and clinics. Also, you sure can miss a lot of a good rotation by interviewing in the middle of it.

During the actual interview, you will want to let the program know right away that you are a member of a couple, and be specific about who your partner is and what department they are interviewing in. Write down specifics about each program as soon as the interview is over. This will be invaluable to you later when you are trying to rank programs. Or alternatively, you can keep a running order list, adding programs in their appropriate places after the interview. We just cannot emphasize enough writing down why you feel that way to do about a particular program because 1) they all get jumbled after a while and 2) you need to have reasons to bargain with later when you are compiling the Couple's Rank Order List. Specifics to look for during the interview: 1) Contentment of the residents, 2) amount of "hands on" experience, 3) how do the programs feel about couples in medicine? Are there any other couples in the program? Will there be any problem with call schedule? and, of course 4) the quality of the educational program.

Once you have completed your interviewing, it's time for the two of you to make up individual rank order lists, just for the two of you to work with. Don't worry, there will be places you'll both like! (But will they like you both too!) Rank programs in the order you like them, not in the order of which one is more difficult to get into. Together, decide who will get priority-usually the person applying to the more competitive specialty. Read the couple's section of the NRMP thoroughly, because you can do things as a couple that you wouldn't believe! For example, if one partner likes a program well and feels he/she has a good chance of being accepted there, but the other partner isn't so sure about his/her chances in the respective program, the second partner may want to go unmatched. (This is one of the reasons you should be in a committed relationship before going through the Couple's Match). If you do decide to use some of your options as a match-unmatched combination, we suggest that you do not select as unmatched the person with the more competitive specialty. It is much better to both be unmatched and look for a spot together on No-Match Day than to have one match in a rather open specialty and very few options for the second person. Again, if you don't understand this "unmatched" stuff, read the NRMP booklet; it is well-explained there.

The main things to remember as a couple are: 1) Make sure all programs know you're a couple, 2) Don't rank any programs where one or both of you will be unhappy, who knows, you may end up there and 3) Depending on what subspecialties you've chosen don't expect to get your first choice. Remember, two independent programs are looking at two individuals, and you will probably go pretty far down your rank list before everything "clicks" - make sure your list is long enough!

Surviving the Couples Match